My Story

Barbara SittingHi. My name is Barbara Anselmi, and I believe that everyone has the power within themselves to create a life that they really desire. I didn’t always believe this, but now I do. I was in a challenging and emotionally disconnected marriage of 20 years. When my husband, who was the sole financial provider, lost his job, we really became stressed as a couple and family (with 2 wonderful children). As much as I tried to “save” my marriage, I realized what I was doing wasn’t working. I felt we needed a miracle. That’s when I started learning about the universal laws (especially law of attraction) and began working on my beliefs. As I started applying the law of attraction and changing my beliefs, my life began slowly shifting …for the better. I noticed that I can create change in my life. And you can too.

I’ve changed how I live my life based on the universal laws – consciously re-creating what I do want my life to be now. I’ve attracted large sums of money, my home, a job when I needed it, resources and people in my life in alignment with what I want. I’ve also tapped into my intuition in times of great challenges and received the guidance I needed at that exact time – like when my infant daughter had a traumatic injury and almost lost her foot (literally). I followed my guidance – discounting everyone around me – and that information saved her foot. She went on to play competitive soccer for over 10 years and now does Crossfit. I’ve successfully overcome infertility and 4 miscarriages with a very happy ending … my amazing son is now 16 years old. I’ve lived through my parents’ and brother’s deaths.

You see, I’ve had many challenges including the dissolution of my marriage, and I did it as consciously and gracefully as I could possibly ever have dreamed of in spite of the fact that I had very little emotional support. How much support do you have right now?

Barbara-NecklaceI was a stay-at-home mom, so it was very difficult to go through the loss of my 20 year marriage and lose the security of the life we’d built. It took all the courage, faith and skills I’ve learned to get through this and navigate the ups and downs. I felt alone, depressed and terrified without much guidance or support. It was incredibly draining: mentally, emotionally, physically and financially. I don’t want anyone to go through that alone. I don’t encourage anyone to divorce as a first option. But I believe that if that’s your choice, I can support you while going through such a transition.

You will feel supported. You will feel calmer, stronger and successful in creating what you want instead of creating from fear and old patterns. Either way, you are creating your life. Which do you choose? You must be calm to successfully create what you really want. Otherwise, you create from fear and old patterns and get the same old result.

Being supported and learning to be empowered will give you more energy and time to devote to your children, business and healing. It will positively affect every area of your life, including more peaceful interactions with your ex-spouse if you choose.  You see, in order to create positive and happy changes in your life, you have to vibrate that essence. “You must be the change you wish to see in the world,” as Mahatma Gandhi says. You have to become what it is that you want in order to attract more of that into your life. I did that, and I know I can help you too.

I desperately wanted peace. Do you? In order to become peaceful, you must shift your thoughts, emotions, beliefs, take action and project your future goals.

That’s not to say it was easy – it wasn’t.  But I learned to handle obstacles and challenges by living consciously using these universal laws, and my faith grew stronger.

So you see … I know what it’s like to struggle. And while my life is not perfect, I KNOW I can help you shift your mindset and vibrations to attract what you REALLY want in your life … if you’re ready.  I know in my heart that it is my mission, and I will do everything in my power to assist you with the guidance, energy work, tools and heart-felt support to help you create the life you want too.

That’s my promise to you.